Help Me Want-To Want You

 “Wake up, O sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.” 15 Be very careful, then, how you live–not as unwise but as wise, 16 making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. 18 Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit. 19 Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, 20 always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. 21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”   Ephesians 5:13-21

My son and I were having a discussion about church which quickly turned to a verbal wrestling match with me trying to get him to want-to do something because he wanted-to, not just get him to do something because he felt he had-to or was being made-to (which I see nothing wrong with, but in this situation, I wanted more).  Motivating the unmotivated, that was my pursuit…not so easy, especially when it is oneself…

I had been thinking about this topic for a few days as it concerned me.  I kept pondering the question, How do I get from the feeling of ‘I have-to’ to ‘I want-to’? In return, the same thought kept coming back to me…”Turn your have-to, to your get-to, then your want-to will come.”

I intentionally applied this to myself and I could feel a general gratefulness come over me as my mind shifted to the right perspective.  It was kind of a spin on,”Kids all over the world are starving, so don’t take your food for granted” talk my parents had with me as a child and as I have with mine today, only with a much broader application.   In that moment, I applied it to my boy.  He didn’t want to go to church.  I wanted him to want-to go to church as I always want him to want Jesus and all things Jesus.  I didn’t want to threaten him to want Jesus, I didn’t want to convince him to want Jesus, I wanted him to want Jesus.

I read this article awhile back entitled, “7 year-old Indian boy tortured and killed for being a Christian”.  I discussed with Jackson the get-to.  This murder took place in India on November 17, 2013.  Not 10, 25, 50 nor 100 years ago.  This took place in our world 50 days ago…50.  This child and his family endured the worst known pain for being filled with the Jesus we are begging people to surrender to.  This child and his family only dreamed of getting to worship freely, yet we can and most times don’t.

As horrific as this story is and will always be, we can’t let this lesson pass us by.  This may not be affecting our families to this degree today, but it always starts somewhere…as a thought.  We don’t have-to worship Jesus, we don’t have-to read our Bibles, we don’t have-to stand against the Devil, we don’t have-to act like Jesus people, WE GET TO!!  We get-to talk about Him, we get-to praise Him, we get-to go to church and proclaim Him.  We get-to freely learn about Him and we get-to teach our children about Him!

We are new creations, not new converts!!  We have gotten into this obligatory mindset that wreaks of death and filth when we were called out into the privilege of His marvelous light and life and truth and peace!!

As I shared this with my son I saw this have-to mentality get put in check.  I saw him awestruck by the story of Anmol and he began instantly to change his mind (which by the way is to REPENT) about the things he and we all take for granted in our “Sunday School” culture.  I saw him arise, dress himself on time and I genuinely saw him want-to worship Jesus because he gets-to!!!

How about you?  Time to turn our have-to to our get-to so we will want-to.  When we want-to, we really can go and change our world!

He is the WELL my friends, let’s partake of Him together!



8 thoughts on “Help Me Want-To Want You

  1. Enjoyed this. Our Pastor spoke of being commited on Sunday, and told us to make sure it was a heart filled decission.

  2. AMEN! AMEN!!! We take the privilege and JOY of worshipping our Lord and savior here in the USA far too much for granted. What a sad shocking story of little Anmol. Well done to share with your sweet son, Mom, well done. 🙂

  3. Such a powerful message, Mel. It does all start in the mind… will and emotions follow. Our souls drive us. Oh that they would line up with our spirits more. We do indeed (need to ) WANT TO wake up the sleeper in ourselves. Shake it off and press onward into the high calling of His light and love. That’s what I want in 2014. and a whole lot more will follow ;o) Thanks for stirring up my/our thoughts today. Blessings to you and your men. Susan

  4. Mel, Thank you for this. As our pastor talked to us about the touchy subject of tithing, he reminded that us that we are fortunate to live in a country where we get to show God our love and thank Him for our blessings. We are truly blessed that we do not live in fear of being caught praying or reading (or even owning) the bible. As I grow in my faith, I realize I Get To show the Lord that I am truly thankful for all he has done.

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